Saturday, February 4, 2012

Why my Education never ruined my life.... SMACK THAT !


I have a friend, who I won’t name who went to a university, I won’t name. He is very proud of having gone to this particular university. He insists that his son will go there. He used to attend their football games regularly. He brags that he is the only member of his family who was ever admitted to that school.
Whenever he says something he thinks he is silly, He makes fun of him for not knowing much because he went to this dumb school. Now in fact, he does not think the school he went to is dumb and he does not think he is dumb but his razzing gets to him and his friends are so that it just gives a way that they talk to each other.
The other day he insisted that his school was ranked in the top 20 universities in the country. This being my business he assured himself that it was not and he got very angry and then eventually looked it up and realized that on some lists his school didn’t appear even in the top 200 in the world. Recently he bet himself that his school was in the top 10 hardest schools to get into the state. Of course it was no where near that hard to get into these days.
Why am I telling this story? I do not believe that one receives a better education in one university than one receives in another (unless one is planning a research career in which case where you go to college may matter a great deal.) It doesn’t matter where he went to school, it does matter what he has done since school. But his alma mater matters to his friends a great deal.
When he moved, as a jobless, from one state to another as he was always being asked why he would make a move like that by his parent. People perceived him as moving down in class. And, he succumbing to the status issue we all live with, will usually respond “HELL YEAH” when asked where he got a job if he does not have the time to list all the places he has been.
This is the point. The obsession we have with going to college in this country, with test scores, with SATs, with rank in class, and so on is not an obsession about education at all. It is an obsession about status. If you can say you went to Harvard every one will say ooh!! and wow!! and suddenly people will believe you are very smart. 
Having taught at places that are thought of that way I can tell you that there are smart kids and there are dumb kids at all these places. What they have in common is an ability to please their teachers and do well on tests.
It is a very sad state of affairs that people spend tremendous amounts of money on exorbitant tuitions, push their kids from kindergarten onwards to get good grades, and obsess about test scores for small children, all in the name of status. Moreover, they attach status to schools that don’t even have that status. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard the phrase “its a very good school” after having been told that someone’s kid went to some school no one ever heard of.
This isn’t just an American obsession of course embedded on all of us through generations. Exactly the same phenomenon exists in the UK down to even which college at Oxford is better than which other college and in France with the Grandes Ecoles and in every other country I know about.
I wish I could say it is all nonsense but it isn’t. Companies make hiring decisions based on which school one attended and your friends think about you differently based on which school you attended. But it is simply not about education in any way. A lecture is still boring everywhere anywhere round the globe. The same books and internet are available anywhere, and college has never actually been all that much about education in any way. Graduate school maybe. College not so much.
We really have to start thinking about all this differently.
Here are some numbers to think about. MIT and Harvard are top research universities. They are really about researchers teaching students to do research. One out every 64,000 people in the US and INDIA are researchers. On the other hand, there are 1 million lawyers, 6 million teachers, and 12 million health care workers. Colleges do not teach these three, graduate schools (and technical schools) do that.
Stop worrying about what college your first grader will go to. Leave him alone. Let him have fun and learn what he wants. Most of us never attended Top Universities (including me) and have managed happy lives thereafter based on the College. Live life to the best on what you want because you never know what happens when where and how ?